Register now for our free Functional Nutrition Webinar with Kelly LeVeque. Ask if he's ready for more. Don't let him climax. Encourage your partner to breathe deeply. Unlike your average hand job, the lingam massage involves not only massaging and stroking the penis but can also incorporate more advanced techniques, including the testicles, perineum, and the Sacred Spot (aka the prostate) as well. You'll have a deeper feeling of worship or meditation and mindfulness. Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to "wand of light." In Tantra philosophy, we approach the lingam, or penis, from a place of the utmost love and respect, the same way we approach the yoni, or vagina. Start by massaging the outside of the anus with your fingers in a slow, smooth, and gentle circular motion. If you are paying close attention to his breathing, how his body is moving, and his moaning, you should be able to predict if he's nearing orgasm. Learning how to stimulate and circulate it is very powerful. His legs should be spread apart with his knees bent, so you have easy access to all parts of his genitalia. To end the massage, you can allow him to climax with an ejaculation orgasm or move onto intercourse. Share on: Share on: Psalm Isadora is the top tantra expert in the world, and a highly sought-after sexuality, relationship, and trauma expert specializing in womens health and empowerment as well as modern sexual education. Move onto the testicles. Ezüst szalon, anna, ezüst szalon. Vary your stroke sequences between straight up and down and a twisting motion. Wiggle it back and forth to loosen him.